Baristanet Reader Needs Help To Pop Question

BY  |  Wednesday, Jul 28, 2010 9:00am  |  COMMENTS (27)

A reader writes…

I will be proposing marriage to my girlfriend this coming Sunday, August 1st in Montclair and need help with my needlessly complicated plan.

I was hoping you could help me spread the word because I need volunteers to take a few minutes out of their day to help me out.
Her friends are taking her out for brunch/lunch on Church St, and will sit at one of the outdoor seating areas. I will need complete strangers that would be willing to approach the table and hand her a single flower, and then walk away. Once she has an armful of flowers and is confused as to what is going on, I’ll show up with the last flower and the ring.
I would be grateful for any help you can provide. Getting strangers to agree to doing this is proving harder than I imagined.

Want to help this romantic guy out? If so, email here.

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27 Comments

  1. POSTED BY Mrs. Martta123  |  July 28, 2010 @ 9:13 am

    How sweet! We won’t be around but what a great idea…I’m sure he’ll find peeps to help out. Good luck!

  2. POSTED BY Right of Center™  |  July 28, 2010 @ 9:17 am

    i hope she doesn’t read baristanet…

  3. POSTED BY chilinmo  |  July 28, 2010 @ 9:29 am

    Barf city! Why is it necessary to “share” one of life’s best moments with the general public? Facebook mentality at its worst.

  4. POSTED BY Newbie  |  July 28, 2010 @ 9:41 am

    Maybe you think it’s “barf city” but it’s not your proposal, now is it? Sheesh, so judgmental.

  5. POSTED BY pessims  |  July 28, 2010 @ 9:42 am

    Totally agree, chilinmo. Someones been watching way too many episodes of Bethenny Getting Married.

  6. POSTED BY Mrs. Martta123  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:00 am

    I agree with Katalina. It may not be everyone’s cup of tea but it’s his GF, his proposal. Certainly not as “Facebook” as proposing at Yankee Stadium on the big screen (yuck). As long as she’s surprised by it (and says “yes!”)

  7. POSTED BY cmeinmontclair  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:02 am

    dramatic & cheesy idea, sorry to say. take it from a woman, keep it simple & romantic — what if she says no??

  8. POSTED BY East Of Orange  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:05 am

    Comment deleted because of meanness.

  9. POSTED BY KatebirdRex  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:11 am

    Good God, what is wrong with you people? Dude wants to do this in his own way; I bet his girlfriend will be delighted. Whether someone wants to pop the question via the big screen @ Yankee stadium, on Church Street in front of lots of people, or whatever other way they choose, it’s not for someone else to judge.
    My brother and his wife got married at a medieval theme hotel in Vegas and left toward the end of their reception to go to a boxing match. That was a million miles away from anything I’d ever consider, but they had a blast and that was the only important thing.
    I think this is very sweet and original.

  10. POSTED BY mathilda  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:32 am

    Surely there is a way to propose marriage without causing the untimely death of a multitude of innocent plants.

  11. POSTED BY Peter J. Gargiulo  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:38 am

    “Needlessly Complicated”.
    You said it! Why is it so complicated? What’s the payoff?

  12. POSTED BY CuppaTeaGirl  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:40 am

    I just emailed him to volunteer! :-) After reading these posts day after day about thefts, shootings, Russian spies, lost pets, and general ickiness, I’m more than happy to support an act performed in the name of LOVE.

  13. POSTED BY spaceck  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:51 am

    Cuppa,
    THANK YOU! Why do people have to destroy others’ wishes? Perhaps because they didn’t think of it? Are their lives so sad that they’ll deny anyone else the opportunity for a little fun and excitement?
    I hope that the operation goes as planned, that she is surprised and excited (and says “Yes!”), and that they live a happy life with fond memories of a special moment.
    All of you spoilers, please avoid Church Street on Sunday and crawl back into your miserable little caves of unhappiness.

  14. POSTED BY Nellie  |  July 28, 2010 @ 10:53 am

    It is a lovely idea. I just hope other women, who may also be planning to have brunch on Church St., won’t be disappointed when the woman in question is not she.

  15. POSTED BY Generically named Mike  |  July 28, 2010 @ 11:26 am

    Very cheesey idea: I LOVE it.
    Unfortunately, I’m not going to be in town this weekend or I would have loved to take part (with my wife in baby in tow to add a “glimpse of the future” to the whole ordeal).
    (also hoping she doesn’t read B-Net or the whole surprise might be ruined)

  16. POSTED BY 13% Annual Tax Increas  |  July 28, 2010 @ 11:35 am

    Can I wear a mankini if I volunteer?

  17. POSTED BY profwilliamss  |  July 28, 2010 @ 12:40 pm

    I’m planning on surprising my love with breakfast in bed. I need folks to ring my doorbell and deliver an ingredient…
    This is cute.
    Asking for help on b- net is not.

  18. POSTED BY BaristaGem  |  July 28, 2010 @ 2:39 pm

    So sweet! Make sure someone films it!

  19. POSTED BY BaristaGem  |  July 28, 2010 @ 2:40 pm

    So sweet! Make sure someone films it!

  20. POSTED BY BaristaGem  |  July 28, 2010 @ 2:43 pm

    So sweet! Make sure someone films it!

  21. POSTED BY BaristaGem  |  July 28, 2010 @ 2:44 pm

    So sweet! Make sure someone films it!

  22. POSTED BY walleroo  |  July 30, 2010 @ 12:09 am

    Are you saying you want it shot from 4 different angles?

  23. POSTED BY DagT  |  July 30, 2010 @ 8:54 am

    I’d guess a film crew is setting up right now. This could be better than the Clinton wedding.

  24. POSTED BY Mrs. Martta123  |  July 30, 2010 @ 9:02 am

    Ai-yi-yi…the Clinton wedding and Lilo gets out of jail…busy weekend for news crews.

  25. POSTED BY Right of Center™  |  July 30, 2010 @ 9:13 am

    They’re spending 3-5 million on the wedding and Hilary is still begging for $35 donations (FREE DVD of one of her speeches included!!!) to retire her campaign debt.

  26. POSTED BY gail930  |  August 01, 2010 @ 1:23 pm

    She said yes and the crowd at Raymond’s cheered.
    Gail P.

  27. POSTED BY KatebirdRex  |  August 01, 2010 @ 3:02 pm

    Yay! :) What a lovely story for a Sunday afternoon.

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