Thoughts on a 23 Year Old Village President

BY  |  Thursday, May 12, 2011 2:30pm  |  COMMENTS (18)

If you want to be President of the United States at age 40, then run for South Orange Village President at age 23—and WIN. That is the message of prodigy Alex Torpey’s successful campaign for Village President of South Orange.

In the municipal election in South Orange this past Tuesday, Torpey upset Village Trustee Janine Bauer’s quest for the top position in South Orange. He beat her — by far the expected to win candidate– by 13 votes. Six provisional ballots have yet to be counted by the County Board of Elections. However, even if all of those ballots are for Bauer, Torpey will have won. An important fact is that Bauer is entitled to keep her job as trustee for the next two years, until her term expires. Continue Reading

Dreaming Small: Downsizing In Essex County

BY  |  Monday, Jan 24, 2011 1:30pm  |  COMMENTS (26)

If you are “somewhere between the age of 40 and death” –a phrase Mame used on Broadway to describe her aging friend, Vera Charles — now may be a good time to start thinking about where you want to live for the rest of your life. For some, the answer may be the same place you live now. Or, you could (or might have to) downsize.

“You mean when you sell all your stuff and move into a smaller space?” my English professor friend, Peggy Samuels, of Glen Ridge asked me. “One thing I know is that husbands and wives rarely agree on what to do.” Peggy could see trading her charming Victorian for a modern, loft-like condominium space in Glen Ridge. Her husband, Lester, hears the siren song of New York City. For now, “inertia” has got the best of them. Continue Reading

End of Year Charitable Giving

BY  |  Thursday, Dec 30, 2010 11:12am  |  COMMENTS (0)

This is the week I traditionally sit down in a quiet place and one-by-one make out checks to the charities I support. My husband and I discuss and decide on the final amounts for the larger gifts we make. For the smaller requests that come across my desk or his, we use our individual discretion.

Since we have been making end of the year charitable contributions for all 27 years of our marriage, I think it qualifies as a ritual. It is one we both take pride in and which brings us closer together as a couple. Continue Reading

Golda Gets A School

BY  |  Thursday, Dec 16, 2010 12:16pm  |  COMMENTS (1)

Last week, an enthusiastic audience of Conservative Jews assembled at the Solomon Schechter Day School’s Upper Campus in West Orange to witness one of the school’s very first students, Daniel Och, announce a $15 million dollar gift, in memory of his mother, Golda, of Maplewood, who passed away last year. The donation by Daniel and his wife Jane, is partly contingent on the raising of matching funds. The amount of this gift was described by chairman of the board, Joseph Bier as “game-changing.” The school will now be known as The Golda Och Academy, a Solomon Schechter School.

Bier, who was a classmate of Daniel Och’s and also the son of one of the school’s founding families, said the money will be used for financial aid to make the school affordable to all Jewish students qualified for admission. It will also be used to renovate the school’s lower campus, a former public school located at the intersection of Gregory Avenue and Northfield Avenue in West Orange. Discretionary amounts will be used for other purposes, such as two merit scholarships decided on last night by the School’s Board of Directors. Continue Reading

Giving Thanks For Lucky

BY  |  Friday, Nov 26, 2010 11:00am  |  COMMENTS (5)

This is the picure I took of my twins before they left for college this September. If it weren’t for the Emergency Animal Hospital in Fairfield, this farewell photo of my childrens’ childhood pet, Lucky, would in all likelihood never have been taken. Our 13 -year old springer spaniel underwent emergency surgery in July. The main thing I communicated to Dr. Hunt, the amazing surgeon was, “Please don’t let Lucky die just before David and Julia go to college.” I couldn’t imagine a worse send-off from home. In David and Julia’s eyes, Lucky WAS home.

So this Thanksgiving I am grateful for the skilled doctors and staff at the Emergency Animal Hospital who helped keep Lucky alive and healthy this year. All of Baristaville’s pet owners can themselves feel lucky and reassured knowing such an outstanding facility exists right here in Essex County, and that it is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I am sure that many pet owners in other areas are not nearly as fortunate as we are.

Lucky’s illness in July was a true wake up call to the thought our family had been suppressing for a while—no 13-year old dog can live forever. And, since July, Lucky has already developed some new conditions which hamper his walking and proprieception. Thus, we have seen Dr. Hunt again, and even consulted with the Hospital’s neurologist.

Without a doubt, though, Lucky’s still got his “mojo.” Among other activities, including sleep, Lucky loves to eat, to smell (which I’ve come to equate with reading), to wag his tail, to keep himself and his habitat clean, to bark at our long-suffering but good-natured mailman. Continue Reading

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